The differences between men and women have been debated, studied and joked about for as long as history itself. Men and women are built differently, think differently, have different goals and are interested in different things a lot of the time and even when there is crossover there are differences of opinion; and yet, millions of people fall in love every day and find a million things to talk about despite the stark differences between the sexes. Things to talk about with a girl therefore should not be that hard but why does it seem like it is so hard when flirting and trying to attract women?
There are a few reasons you may become tongue tied when talking to a girl and a lot of it comes from a lack of confidence not a lack of topics. The first thing you must do is overcome your insecurities and fears which can be many for some guys.
Fear of rejection Fear of ridicule Fear of judgment
Take your pick!
If you can find a natural confidence and an attitude that says you do not worry about what they think of you this easy attitude and natural confidence will flow through into what you talk about and how to talk and is the best bit of dating advice you can get!
The next step in how to attract women with flirting and conversation is that less is more and listening is more important than talking. You will never be a loss for words if you ask questions and get people to talk about themselves but more important than just doing this is to really listen to what they are saying because while they might be talking about something you have no interest in or do not understand it is obviously polite to listen but it is vital to pick up on the hints they drop. From each thing they say you will find another topic to enquire about and this back and forth makes for an interesting conversation.
The last hint on things to talk about with a girl is to empathize with them and not by just saying “i agree” or “oh i feel the same” but to actually find some common ground in this conversation. Perhaps her issues with her siblings has similarities with yours, perhaps she feels strongly about something you also feel strongly about. Take these things and development them in your conversation and suddenly you will find them drawing closer to you and making more eye contact and outright flirting with you as a connection if formed through confidence and good listening skills.
